Sunday, July 15, 2012

Moooooooooving

I'm no stranger to moving however, moving with kids is new business to me.  Obviously we wouldn't be moving (especially this much) if it were not corporate.  That being said, I am so grateful that it was a corporate move and many of the pains of moving were handled.  I can't not imagine how much more difficult things would have been.

Packing Up
Our place in Honolulu was furnished by Disney and we had stuff of our own as there as well.  Our new place has "everything we need" basically, The Disney stuff that we were not purchasing from Honolulu was to be given to an philanthropic organization.  We had stuff going back to Florida for our return one day and we had things going to CA.  We also had to pack for 4 weeks of suitcase living until our things arrive.  What a cluster.  We had to separate things into these piles as best as possible.  (seems simple enough - NOT - look around your house and imagine organizing EVERYTHING into 3 piles and having 2 sets of movers.  I will be amazed if everything makes it to it's intended destination.

Helaina and Indigo did the best job possible for a 2 1/2 year old and a 6 month old under the conditions.  Every 30 seconds Helaina would grab a toy or something out of a box or a pile.  It was slightly maddening but not surprising for her age.  She slept on a blanket with a pillow and no pillow case the last two days for nap at our apartment while Chris and I cleaned and organized.  She ate picnic style in our hotel room and loved getting to eat out and try new foods from delivery.  Wonder where she gets that from? (Thank you Vertolli's for the awesome delivery gift certificate that we used every cent of -- and mommy enjoyed the holiday from the kitchen though surprisingly, I'm glad to be back.)

We said Aloha to great friends, a beautiful state (for many reasons) and the place where we had our babies.




Moving On
It's imperative for those of you who want to see me visit, this must be the last time I shall speak or write about the airplane experience.  This is a family blog so I will hold the expletives that come to mind when I recall the pain and agony of this flight.  We could have left early am or red eye but I believe this could have actually hurt worse - especially since Heliana did not sleep on our last redeye AT ALL.  A 2 pm flight seemed the most manageable.  We got up at 6 packed up and ate breakfast.  However, at breakfast, Chris' "slippah" -( if you live in Hawaii - Flip flop if you any where else except Jersey where we called them thongs..  I digress)  whatever you call it, it broke.  (see exhibit A and B).

Yes he did monkey toe the broken string to "walk" back to our room

Therefore, Chris dropped Indi and I at Walmart for a last minute purchase while he and H headed to our 9 am walk through for our apartment.    That went relatively well with the exception that they informed us we need to return our cable box to the cable place.  After the cable box return downtown, we headed to the Post Office to mail 3 boxes of "immediate need" things that we felt we would have before 4 weeks but there was no way in heck we could carry anything else on the plane.

We still managed to arrive with time to spare.  Chris drops me at the curb with the all the carry on and checked luggage.
Carry on = One dog in a dog carrier, one dog bag of food etc..., one back pack for children's entertainment, 2 computer bags, a cooler for Indi's food, one baby bag, one stroller, & one Minnie Mouse doll.
Checked luggage:  4 heavy suitcases, 1  pack and play, & 2 car seats.  Oy Ve.






A wonderful and well tipped sky cap took all our belongings while the girls and I (including bebe) checked in.  Prior to security, I entertained the girls while Chris took bebe to go potty before embarking on her adventure but not before I slipped her a doggie Valium.  (Yes, I did think about taking one for myself and in hindsight wish I would have considered it harder).  While Chris was coming through security last with bebe, the TSA agent asked me if I was traveling alone.  I just looked at her and gave a hysterical sort of laugh.

We eat, board and feel like we have the hard part behind us.  ERRRRRRRRRRRRRNNNNT.  Silly Laura for thinking that this 5 hour flight would be cake because it's half the time I am used to flying.  Fortunately we had 4 seats across and didn't have to share an actual row with anyone -- though they may have qualified for a sympathy move to another section.  Bless my sweet children's hearts but Heliana did not sleep one wink the entire day and Indi took 3, 20 minute naps.  Amidst the meltdowns and constant breastfeeding bebe decided that she was unhappy with her lot and started barking.  (Any of you who know bebe may recall that she doesn't bark).  Clearly she was ticked so I gladly fed her the next installment of Valium though I again considered the dosage for myself or my children.
Our seating was nestled among a very large Chinese tourist group.  I must say that a few of the people in this group were so incredibly rude that it made me fearful of just what exactly we are getting ourselves into on our next move-- now that I have had time to calm down, I reminded myself that there will be cultural changes and challenges but this group was in no way indicative of what my experiences will be (hopefully).  At one point my easy breezy husband that I've never seen loose his cool, HIT the back of my seat and told the guy who was trying to look over the seat while I was breast feeding it was "Not ok and to back off".  I also verbally assaulted a women who was staring and laughing at me during a double child meltdown.  Though we arrived at 10:30 PM the luggage and rental car fetching delivered us to our new home at the ripe local time of 1:30 AM.  (10:30 PM at our origin location in case you didn't want to do the math).  Helaina had still not slept at this point but promptly crashed the millisecond her head hit the pillow as did the rest of us.

Settling In
Our first weekend was good.  It's strange how living in a place for just 3 years can wear off on you.  Hawaiian life had rubbed off on us more than we had realized.  The car horn beeping, traffic (way worse than the bad honolulu traffic) smog, and "fancy people (see later description)" will all take some getting used to.   I am not sure if I will ever get used to the warning signs that are posted every where in almost every building.    The reality is I am sure these dangers are most everywhere but I prefer to live in ignorance.


This gem is posted in the elevator in our building


30 mile drive 1 hour 10min.  Hmmm where does the smog come from?


There are a few things that we are loving in our transition so far.  For one THE FOOD OPTIONS!!!!!!!  I love that restaurants are so good and there are so many to choose from.  Hawaii had a few but not many.  I guess we just got used to it I guess.  Man it's good to be back to eating.  I'm going to have to step up my exercise regime if I'm going to keep up with my taste buds.  
The cost of food at the grocery is a close runner up.  I found my self uncontrollably smiling and wanting to tell complete strangers just how great the prices are.  On our first trip to the grocery where you have to buy everything (olive oil, mustard, tin foil etc...) It was the same price as my weekly grocery visit in Honolulu!!  I feel rich ;o)



If allowed, I think Helaina could take this pile herself 

One of the best things though is the amount and quality of the kid parks.  As Chris put it, "No wonder why this state is bankrupt".  The first 3 parks we have visited have been some of the best parks I have ever been to.  One yesterday had a 3 story slide and one today had 4 separate sections including a splash pad.  Maybe this is normal for you people but I was happy if I found one in Honolulu with no rust and if it had swings it was a bonus.






The Zoo here is awesome.  Well our first trip was not that NOT as it was uber-hot, crowded with "fancy people *see later note" and Helaina poked herself in the eye (This would be the second time she has done this) with her own finger.  We ended up in urgent care but it all was fine in the end.  That being said, we need a "Zoo-over" but we are looking forward to it.



Now about these "Fancy People" that I have referred to.  For the most part, I have always been on the low maintenance side when it comes do hair, make-up etc...  I have further embraced this since becoming a mommy.  I don't prefer to spend the limited time that I have looking in the mirror at myself. If that is your thing, that's cool.  However, even if it is I might suspect you may also be baffled to find 2 or 3 different mommies applying make up in the zoo parking lot (eye lash curlers, powder and everything).  I sure hope the animals appreciated the extra time these ladies put into getting ready.  People just dress a bit different here -- my simple self can only refer to it as fancy.  I hope it doesn't wear off ;o)

Our first official weekend here, we headed off to hike up the "Heart of Hollywood" hike.  It was somewhat challenging and we enjoyed some fantastic people watching.  There were some views of some ridiculously large homes, the Hollywood sign, lots of dogs (no leash required), & downtown all covered with a not so faint gray cloud of smog.  We had our first "celebrity sighting" which was Ryan from the office (sorry, no picture).  I would say you can't really call it celebrity if you don't know the actors name (and only their role) but I'm not that great with actors names do don't take my word for it.
More celebrity like for Helaina was a fire truck that drove up the paved "hike".   She told the fireman that trucks were yellow in Honolulu.   She even got to sit in the truck.  I think she felt like the celebrity.

We are not in Honolulu anymore Dorothy


look real close and you will see "Hollywood"


We are currently living in Glendale but are moving to Burbank next month to a one floor unit.  Once we get settled in, I will send out change of address notes.  In the mean time, I will hopefully be able to update you with our nonsense and maybe even book some trips to see you people.  As always, our door is open and we would love to have visitors.  


Shout out to Vanessa, Our first east coaster that took
time out of her business trip to hang with the girls and I.





Friday, June 15, 2012

A time for firsts, lasts and terrible twos

Like my mom always said,  "never a dull moment."  In case you haven't heard, we are officially off on our next adventure.  We are bidding Hawaii fair well and saying hello to California (but just for 9 - 12 months).  Then it's off to China (for 2-3 years) so Chris can join the team that will build Disney Shanghai.  We have all the excitement, anticipation, and nervousness that you would expect.  We are going to miss a lot of things about Hawaii but I will pen those things later.  I know that most of you read this blog for the girls and their pictures so I will get to their updates 1st.





Helaina is doing a bang up job with potty training.  At this point I would say she is officially "trained" as she hasn't had an accident in a week.  However, she refuses to go number 2 at school.  You know many of you did the same thing, so who can blame her?  To celebrate (and because it will probably be the last time), we have booked a night a Aulani (the Disney hotel) next week.  We are waiting to tell her so no spoiling if you read this and get a chance to talk to her.
  
I would definitely say we are in the throws of terrible two's.  (At least I think this is what it is and not just some catch phrase parent's use to get you through a tough time that is only going to get harder). She can go BALLISTIC when she get's fixated on something that she wants or doesn't want, that you you are trying to coax her to do/not do. (Hmmmm, I wonder where she get's this from).  She is a gifted whiner right now and it's like nails on a chalk board to me.  She makes me a nervous mommy when she jumps, swings, hops, and does somersaults -- always 2 inches from Indigo's head.   But with all that being said, she only tries my skills 3-4  days a week and the other day's she is a treat to be around.  She is back to sleeping well through the night and she's eating like a champ again - even salad (though she is using stall tactics to get more one on one time with daddy).  She is funny, her laugh is intoxicating & and I still stare at her in absolute amazement that I get to call her my daughter.


"Do I look like I can cause trouble?"

1st Popsicle - Homemade Mango and Yogurt

Pretend Cell Phone is fun





Using the clubs that Grandaddy gave her
She almost H tall




Indigo has had an incredible month of firsts.  We busted out the bouncy horse that our dear friends the Gerich's gave us before leaving Hawaii.  She seems content being upright but hasn't quite figured out the bounce part.  Helaina on the other hand is testing the limits of the structural steadiness to the horse.  We have gotten our first legitimate giggle though I'm having trouble capturing it on film.  We started rice cereal.  (I didn't start Helaina until 6 months but I thought we will have enough going on at the 6 month mark since that is when we are moving).  She is a good eater so far, as was Helaina, but a bit messier.  Helaina enjoys helping feed Indigo a lot.  She say's "I do it 'cause you messy" - We're not sure if she is talking to Indigo or me.






Most importantly, (if you are me anyway) is Indigo has slept ALL the way through the night the last 4 nights!!!!! I'm talking down at 7:30PM and wake up at 5:00 or 6:00AM.  Can I get a WaaaaaaaaWhoooooooooooooo?  Hot Dang it feels good to get 5-7 hours of consecutive sleep.  So it looks like our plan may work and they will be sharing a room in our next house.  Wish us luck!  

Our little smile bug

She finds Helaina funny also





Rock N Roll Forever








Change is hard, even if you are excited about something.  We have had the wonderful opportunity to live in Hawaii and we will keep the memories of our time here close to our hearts.  


There are a few things I will NOT miss about this beautiful place and will enjoy the following:   
       (for a year anyway) 
* Having a grocery bill that is less than $300 a week
* Not having to shop at Walmart
* Ordering something online and not having to wait until checkout to see if they ship to us
* Not having to shop at the busiest Costco in the U.S.  (F!)
* Furniture or incidental shopping at something in between an Ashley Furniture quality (which is still expensive) and Fendi/Gucchi/ or other high end I could never afford type stores
* Not having a rampant roach problem (island wide)
* Having people text and call us at normal hours
* Being able to see friends and family with travel less than 12 hours and under $1,000 / seat 
* Being able to eat at Chick-Fil-A:  this is Chris' number one request
* Being able to drive longer than 2 hours - other than in a circle




There are a ton of things I WILL miss about Hawaii but here a few that come to mind:


* The obvious natural beauty in the plants, birds and general topography including the bluest water
* Whale watching - especially from our apartment 
* Snorkeling so amazing that it feels like the equivalent of someones exotic fish collection
* Being able to hike volcanos, craters, & to see waterfalls
* The ever predictable weather that is ALWAYS gorgeous and a lovely island breeze
* Walking 5 blocks to the beach and to anything else that I could ever need
* Not ever being really late because "i stay on hawaii time"
* Being able to wear "Slippas" or flip flops ANYWHERE! 
* Throwing the Shaka (without having people look at you weird)
* Seeing no less than 3 brides a day (who doesn't love weddings ?)
* Laughing at the news because there is not a ton of violent crimes so they cover some random topics
* Being able to enjoy the fruits of Chris' labor at Aulani
* The way that all Hawaiian's love little babies and bring food for every occasion.
* People who live with Aloha
* My amazing Mid Wife who made it possible for me to birth both my children naturally 
* The people at our church.  (I've never been part of such a group of people that are so genuine and kind) 
* Making a few lifetime friends - though most have moved away already - you know who you are.
* Last but certainly not least, being in the place where Chris and I began our family.






Friday, May 4, 2012

Busy doing nothing (but some bragging)

I will cover the stuff that you are really reading this blog for first.

Helaina and Indi are little weeds.  It is so amazing to watch someone grow and learn.  It's almost unfathomable at the rate in which this happens.  Helaina has her alphabet memorized and has some letter recognition.  She can spell her 1st and last name.  She counts to 16 (with no mistakes before 10).  I keep telling Chris to save for Harvard to which his reply is "Virginia Tech."
All my girls including Minnie and Tevan

She's being brainwashed by Chris and Mimi
Note the adorable pigtails.  (were up to 6 min of wearing)




Potty updates (isn't my life exciting?)
She is wearing big girl underwear!  Pull ups can go pound sand!  My opinion is they are worthless.  It's much easier to pull down underwear and she is much less inclined to relieve herself in Minnie or Princess underwear.  Yes I have, totally sold out to "the Mouse" and bribing.  We also should buy stock in Raisins and Craisins.  She gets some every time she goes to the potty.    I believe that is the main reason she has any desire to go but hey, it works!  She was almost there and  then regressed some but that seems to be a theme with children.  As my BFF Cathy said, "it's all a phase, good and bad, it's all a phase"

Things Helaina says:
Last blog I covered funny things that Helaina says.  I beginning to think this will be a regular topic in the blogs.  She has a baby doll that we have lovingly named "Tevan" as a reminder of when she was learning to count she would count up 8, 9, and then say "teven" which is a combo of Ten and Eleven.  This week she wanted "just one Chee" which we later deduced that she was bargaining for just one piece of cheese.  Pretty smart that she made up a singular use of the word cheese.
She also said she wanted to go through the "funnel" when we went on a road that has a tunnel through the mountain.  And lastly she asked if I was looking at the "Frigatta" when I was looking out at the ocean.  Which of course, was the sail boat regatta that we are lucky to see every Friday from our place.  I sometimes feel bad that I get so much enjoyment out of her mistakes while she is learning but it's soo cute.  





I can't help but smile when she does

Indi is officially rolling over.  Time for us to get a twin bed for H so we can convert the crib back for Indigo.  WOW kids are expensive.  (especially in Hawaii).  What I wouldn't do for nice IKEA bed right now.  Indigo is a happy baby.  She wakes up and hangs out her crib making sweet cooing noises until someone comes to get her (unless of course you wait too long, which I have found out the hard way-- don't judge as I'm keeping pretty busy with this potty training stuff).  She smiles a LOT and only has some moments of cranky at this point.  (again it's just a phase but I'm trying to enjoy it while it's here).  She is learning how to use her voice and lets out some relatively loud screams all the while with a big smile on her face.  She LOVES to watch Helaina and gets excited when Helaina engages her.

My goal right now is to get Indi sleeping just a bit longer threw the night so I can attempt to put them in the same room.  Be sure to see my updates :o)

We were a good looking couple - 4 years and 2 children ago


Chris and I just celebrated our 4 year anniversary.  We are going to dinner on Saturday and looking forward to some mommy daddy time.  Again, in some ways it feels like our wedding was yesterday and in other ways it feels like we have always been together.  I still feel like the luckiest girl in the world.  I often feel like it was a dream that we actually met by my chasing him down the sidewalk.  I can definitely say that story has a happy ending.  I feel like our marriage is so easy going at times that I fear I might be missing something.  We both read a book called Love Dare.   I feel like it realigned things that we didn't even know were amiss.  I highly recommend it to anyone who is married.  (or considering marriage).

On another note, I joined a book club.  Since the first book was Hunger Games I was a shoe in (as I had already read and obsessed over the all three installments. The second book is called Make the Bread, Buy the Butter).  In short, a journalist who lost her job took on the task of home making many of the every day items that most of us buy from the store.  (yogurt, bread, butter, cheese etc....).  She found great recipes for each weighed them against how much time it took to make, taste and average cost.   It's essentially a cook book but she has added her hilarious dialect and it makes for a great read.  

So far, I have made homemade plain yogurt which was easy, DELICIOUS and not bitter tasting like store bought.  (though living in Hawaii and buying organic made this not a cost savings.  I have also made bagels.  I used whole wheat (which I don't normally buy at the deli) so it was not as good as white flour bagels but the smell was SOO yummy and they were pretty darn good for whole wheat.  I also made pumpkin chocolate chip muffins that were delightful.  Helaina helped.  And by helped, I mean she poured into the bowl the measured items I handed her.  Minus the cup of sugar that landed on the floor, she did an outstanding job for a two year old.  I plan on continuing to make things from the book.  I will let you know if there are any others worth making.   

Cooking yeast is SERIOUS FUN for an amateur baker

My lovely assistant sporting her own apron from Auntie Ro Ro

Yummy smelling and tasting
Many of you want to know when we are moving and where.  So do we.  
The story pretty much changes every week as there are a bunch of moving parts.  I promise we are not holding out and we will update you all as soon as we have a more clear and solid picture.  For now, we are continuing to enjoy our life in Hawaii.    Much love to you all!